I am going to start off by saying that I don’t understand people that believe they can change someone. No, let me put this right; I can understand them but I don’t quiet get their motives. Please let me know!
Last time I was reading an article and I saw this quote: “Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you will understand what little chance you have in trying to change someone else”. I loved it. This is so true. Imagine all the times your family or friends told you they don’t like that habit of yours but still, you can’t get rid of it, you can’t make it go away. Some times even if you want it, some other times because others are trying to make you change. It is hard, right?
Then what in the world makes you think that you got the magic to change him/her change? No,wait! I have a better question: What in the first place made you like/love that person? Didn’t you like him/her with his/her flaws? Then,is the feeling going to go away because of that single thing? Think about it.
Maybe you are telling yourself that you are worth the change, right! But still, they will change if and only if they want it. You can make them see what you want changed or that you are worth it, but you can’t change it. They’re human beings and human beings are not perfect. Which means that they will never be the way you want them to be. Plus, you are probably not either, but they loved you still.Then, consider yourself lucky to have people that love you and that love you just the way you are, and try to do the same thing.
Thanks for reading me!
Until Next time
“No one can change a person but a person can be a reason someone changes”
Sponge Bob
I.L.Duchesse.
Being Duchesse 
Loved this! Especially the spongebob quote 🙂 . And the one in the picture! So pretty… Maybe you could check out my blog??
Anyway, thanks for this post! I loved reading it!
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Oooh thank you dear. I am very glad you liked. I am heading to your blog right now. 🙂
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Thankyou!
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Well said and absolutely true! When we can’t change ourselves, how can we expect others too? Good one!
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Right? I am glad you like it 🙂 thank you!!
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I agree wholeheartedly! I find it hard to change a little habit of mine, I’m certaintly not qualified in changing another person’s entire personality. 🙂 I would be rather ignorant if I believed that were possible.
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I know, right?lol
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I really appreciate this. Thank you so much dear!! Keep posting good stuff.I like it😊
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“No one can change a person but a person can be a reason someone changes” – True so we should surround ourselves with the people who can lift our spirit
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Yes!! You got a good point. Certainly not people who want us changed!😊
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Just found your blog and I love it! I`ll make sure to check it out often from now on. Keep up the good work! 🙂
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Thanks a lot. I appreciate it! I will do my best 😊
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Hi, Dee. I love the Spongebob quote! 🙂
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Hello David, thanks!
I liked it too!
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